Well its now November 1st and we have completed our annual IEP. Nicholas started Kindergarten this year and it was so bittersweet for me. He is academically growing and so interested in learning. He has won super reader awards for 2 months in a row now and he just keeps going. The year started off a little bumpy as the school did not fully understand when I said he does not transition well, yet seeks for structure. It has taken 3 months for the "school" to adjust to him.
His behavior issues that were being reported were valid, yet not addressed by the school and I was growing more concerned. I had this feeling since Nicholas was very young that his over stimulation and need for structure was so much more than just being a very clean and "exact" child. I addressed my concerns with his Neurologist and psychologist once more due to his disruption at school increasing and he didn't seem like the happy kid we knew so well over the summer break. I had waited for an appropriate referral for an assessment from the Autism clinic at Stanford, then our Doctors called them and got us right in. He showed he was a very high functioning child yet on the spectrum of Autism. This was not really a surprise to me, but yet another knife in my heart. We now are dealing with Duchenne, B-Thalassemia, Gilbert's syndrome, OCD, Autism Spectrum and ADHD, Not to mention his Asthma and odd outbreaks of random rashes. Surprisingly we are hanging in there!
He started another medication in hopes to allow him to have quality of life, Tenex. Its other name is guacafine and we were told it was a 50/50 chance it may or may not work. His psychologist was in hopes that it would at least allow him to sleep as he has been waking up frequently at night or not going to sleep at all. Which can put a real damper on daily life. So far so good! Transitions have been smoother and he is sleeping better, a few night terrors though.
We are now starting PRT at Stanford with a very down to earth understanding Doctor who "gets him"! Although these issues are so hard to deal with, I feel blessed. I feel blessed that he is oblivious to other children who make fun of him, because he really doesn't care. I feel blessed to know so many doctors/scientist on a personal level who specialize in his disorders. These are things that many don't see or have. I am hopeful that one day I can just simply focus on my child for who he is and not always his medical health. One day at a time and one step after another.
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